It’s much easier to judge other people than to appraise what’s going on in our own lives. Identifying where other folk are making mistakes, and muddling things up, is simple. But when it comes to untangling our own problems, we get caught in a net of self-justification. In the long run though, does anybody care why, when, or how something happened? Apportioning blame might be satisfying, but it doesn’t help. You can find a way out of a tricky scenario today. You just need to be prepared to let go of the history behind it.