In a Laboratory, experiments are conducted under strict controls. The variables are measured and meted out to identify their impact on the system that is being subjected to a process of change. Life rarely offers us such an opportunity for control. Even the best laid plans and carefully calculated ideas are subject to variables that we cannot always measure or account for. Ifs and Buts can lead us to second guessing ourselves. You are not expected to have all the answers, or know exactly why something is happening. Give yourself, and the decision you made a chance to prove itself and you may just be proved right, even if you can’t pinpoint how things turned out so well!