Sometimes, no matter how much a situation is pushed along, there is no intervention that can hurry a process that needs time to develop. If you can see a realistic way to hasten a process or bring forward a deadline, by all means apply your plan. But be prepared for being reminded that matters of the heart tend to take a lot longer to heal than feels reasonable. That does not mean that it will never go in the direction you need it to. I am just asking you to give a little bit more patience. By letting time work its magic, you can avoid unnecessary pressure on you to resolve something that you are better off staying clear of.