When we get used to not getting what we want, we prime ourselves for a fight. Once we have committed the energy it takes to dig in our heels and kick up a fuss it can be very difficult to see when it is time to back down. Even when we are given what we originally wanted, it suddenly doesn’t seem good enough… ask yourself today if what you are looking for is not your own way but a boundary to come up against. There is no point in punching an enemy who wants to be a friend.