They say that when a wave pulls you into a riptide the best thing to do is stay calm. Going against the relentless force of the tide will not only exhaust you, but it can take you even further away than you were meant to be. Your situation may be making your instincts scream to fight and swim against it, but by relaxing and calming yourself you will gently float to where you need to be. It may take a little time, but by going with the flow you will reach your destination.