When we are faced with a situation we feel powerless to change, there are really only two options available to gain back control. Either we entirely let go of attachment to the issue or outcome, or we insist upon changing things. If you cannot transform the situation you now find yourself in, do not waste time whining. Take yourself to a place of higher perspective and allow yourself to envisage a future without the feature of this current problem. You will soon invoke this to become true.